How to Play Freely in Sports
Do you or your athletes need to “get out of your own way” when competing? You might be thinking: “What does it mean to get out of your own way?”
Allow me to answer this question in one moment…
What prompted me to write this post was an interview I saw after the 2008 Cox Classic, a Nationwide Tour event.
Ryan Hietala earned the title in a playoff. In an interview, he said he did not know how to define “Get out of your own way,” but his goal was to stay in the present and not put pressure on himself:
“I was just trying to stay in the present and not get ahead of myself. I’ve never been able to define ‘Get out of your own way.’ I don’t know what that means. I don’t understand that. I guess it means not to put pressure on yourself.” ~Ryan Hietala
In one sense, Ryan is correct about the pressure athletes place on themselves to win.
I have another definition of “get out of your own way.” When an athlete is unable to get out of his own way, the mind interferes with his physical talent.
In a general sense, your mind sabotages your well-learned physical skills. The mental game misfires.
But another specific definition is also appropriate when discussing getting out of your own way…
Most of the time, athletes who can’t “get out of your own way” try way too hard, force their game, think too much, or over analyze.
I’ve conducted a massive amount of research with athletes on performing in the zone. These athletes talk about how they were able to perform without the mental handcuffs of over analysis…
Many athletes described an experience in which they felt like observers (of their own performance) allowing their performance to just happen. As if they were performing on autopilot.
Thus if you over think or over analyze your game, try to force it on every play or shot, and don’t trust your performance, you are guilty of getting in your own way.
When you get out of your own way, you allow yourself to play freely without added pressure. You allow yourself to just do it and trust in your skills.
To help my students get out of their own way, I created “The Fearless Athlete” CD Program, which is the fourth addition to my popular Confident Athlete series.
The Fearless Athlete program is ideal mental preparation especially for perfectionist athletes who want to over-control and over think their performance.
You can read more about The Fearless Athlete and my students’ reaction.
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“WOW!!! What a week I had. I was able to perform with a confidence that allowed my style to shine through–no more entering the arena with that “deer in the headlights” look or feeling. I stopped evaluating myself while I was performing, and I actually left the arena after my patterns feeling like I had experienced a lot of fun. Thank you so much.”
~Julia Dreyer, National Champion Equestrian
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“I first purchased The Confident Athlete to see how the program went and immediately saw results. I then purchased the rest of the confident athlete series and have noticed a dramatic improvement in my level of play or should I say consistency. I currently play NCAA Division 1 baseball for Lamar University, and even my coaches have noticed a change in the way that I approach the game. My attitude and confidence at the plate.”
~Tylor Prudhomme (Listen to his success story)
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~Shaun Burrell, Professional Surfer (Listen to his success story)
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We’ve got a great program for you called “The Confident Sports Kid: A 7-Day Plan for Building Ultimate Self-Confidence.”
The Confident Sports Kid is a 7-day program for sports parents and kids to boost young athlete’s performance, happiness and success… in sports and life!
The Confident Sports Kid is two programs in one. There’s a manual and CD for parents/coaches, and a workbook/CD for young athletes.
Packed with mental strategies that you and your kids can start using immediately, this program teaches your athletes how to identify confidence busters, proactively deal with them, manage expectations that undermine confidence, and mentally prepare to stay confident when faced with adversity.
What’s more, our program teaches you, as sports parents and coaches, how you may be hurting your kids’ confidence and gives you instructions for changing your behavior in ways that will improve your athletes’ performance, confidence and enjoyment.
Learn more about one of our most popular CD programs in The Confident Sports Kid Series…
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What are parents and coaches saying about our program?
“I appreciate the advice to parents as to how to help your child become more mentally resilient to bullying in sports. The specific advice and scenarios are extremely helpful for any child on a team and very helpful in guiding parents, coaches and administrators in how to deal with bullying in sports. I cannot thank you enough for your input, and I am so reassured to know that there are people like you who are writing articles and doing interviews on such timely and important matters.”
~Julie Goot
“Dr. Patrick Cohn and Lisa Cohn are to be congratulated! Together, they offer a wealth of knowledge, information, and practical mental tools for sports parents on the substantial “mental game” challenges and pressures facing today’s young athletes.”
~Marc D. Anderson, LCSW, MGCP, Mental Game Coach
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For mental coaches, this system is ideal for between session education.
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What are coaches saying?
“I am really pleased with the Athlete’s Mental Edge workbooks – they are fitting in really well with my coaching! I find they offer a great framework for doing workshop sessions. I have also used the workbooks with a few individual athletes – for the younger ones (12 and under). They are giving a good structure and framework to our sessions. The workbooks have worked well with all of them!”
~Kerri Morgan, Mental Game Coach
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~Tony Melito, MGCP